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My ex is having a baby with someone else after just one month of ending our relationship. Later I found out the girl was pregnant at that same particular time and he had made her his girlfriend. I guess she was a rebound gone wrong and he is just taking responsibility for his actions but it still hurts. He completely ignores. Out of this entire situation what has hurt me the most has been his indifference towards me. So nonchalantly he pushed me away from his life like I never mattered.

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I need some advice as I am battling with my heart and emotions right now. I was in a relationship with my daughters father for 4 years and we moved to texas together. We broke up in June of when he packed his stuff while I was at work and left. He didnt go anywhere at the time he just went ti my grandparents. They let him stay there for a month because he told every one he just needed space and he wanted to work it out for his family.

My daughter and I saw him maybe 3 Times the time he spent at my grandparents. One day I txt him and asked him are we gonna work it out and that I miss him and he told me no while still being at my grandparents. When I told my granfather he asked him to leave as he had been there for a month telling them he was coming home. After that I could not find him nor contact him for about two months. All the while he did not check on his baby not one time.

When I finally got back im contact it was August but he seemed very distant and still did not come see the baby or call for her. I popped up at some apartments i saw his car parked at and found him A few weeks later in september I invited him to a drs appointment and to the park. Within those two days we ralkes about our baby what he has missed and I spoke about getting back together. I had asked if he was seeing someone else he said no. A few days later I caught him with a new girl at same apartments I saw his car parked at.

The girl said they were just friends A few days layer i txt him about the situation and i was pissed. He didnt out right tell me it was his gf but i can read be t ween the lines.

So he started blowing me off then i made the misrake of going over there early the next morning ready to fight. He ended up puting his hands on me and truly did alot of damage. All because he was a coward and discovered with the girl the nect morning but she was just his friend the day before all of a sudden the next day she his gf. After he put his hands on me i filled a police report and we have had no contact A few months later i see on fb him and the new girl went to alabama.

How is it you have enough money to leave state and take someone with you but you not doin for your daughter So he has gotten away with everything.

I had to startnover with child support at that point n order to locate him. I am devestated I am hurt and angry and pissed for my daughter I wrote him on fb which I shouldnt have done but I didt and told him he was a horribel p person for that and how he did my daughter.

We went back and fourth for a while reading how he is trying to justify his actions. Saying she d u dnt even know she was pregnant and she didnt want to be. Sll these contriceptives. How is it u dnt do anything for yoir first but you can go make a second and in such a short amount of time. Im just at a loss and I still javent gotten over 4 yrs with this person and he has gotten over my daughter and I like we never existed Doesn't sound like he's going to be a part of your lives and wouldn't be a good addition if he changed his mind.

I'd keep working on getting child support, stay close to family, and let his parents be a part of her life if they want to. Doesn't sound like you can expect anything from him. Hopefully other family will be supportive. He is a loser and will never be a father to your daughter.

You need to accept that and move on. Go find a great guy who loves the both of you and find your little girl a real father. So far he doesn't sound like he wants to e a father at all. There are deadbeat fathers in this world and he sounds like one. When people show you their true colors, believe them. I'm sorry you're going through this but sounds like you're better off without him.

I agree w deb, keep on him for child support. And avoid tracking him and this other chick down. You will be doing yourself a favor if you move on.. Btw, sorry for being so blunt but it's obvious he wants nothing to do with you and you can't make him love you or your daughter.

Stalking him and his girlfriend will only make you crazy so you need to forget about him. You have a little girl who needs you and she should be your number one priority. No more following him, or fighting. You don't need to be in all that when this little girl needs a strong momma.

You just keep your head up and a smile on your face and defy the odds. You don't need a man to be a family. You, your daughter, your grandparents, and any other relatives that supports you are a family. Sorry to be blunt as well but stop stalking him. He obviously doesn't want to be a part of your lives.

File for child support immediately. Do your absolute best to move on and be a mom and dad to your child.

I know this is heartbreaking but you will get through it. You don't need someone like that in your life. This has to be so heartbreaking.

Try your best to get some child support, and sny other support you need so that you and your daughter don't go without, and try to just focus on being the best mom you can be for her. Be a strong example of what love is and what it is not.

Do this by realizing your worth as a human being and not chasing down a "man" who clearly isn't capable of being a dad or devoted husband.

I wish you luck, mama! Thanx you guys. Its just very hard to swallow the person I was so in love with is not who I thought he was. Everything I went through with him and it doesn't mean a thing What kind of person just leaves there baby but turn right around and make another one. He has all his family and friends believing I kicked him out of her life.

Oh man!! Hang in there.. Easier said than done but I'm sure he will come back around.. It will be up to you if you want to take him back But those type of men Always come back with their tails between their legs. BabyCenter aims to share products and services we hope you'll find interesting and helpful. Just so you know, we may earn a commission if you buy something we've linked to here. BabyCenter is committed to providing the most helpful and trustworthy pregnancy and parenting information in the world.

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Join now to personalize. December Birth Club. Comments from original poster 1 Comments from original poster 1. Load more. Sounds like he wants nothing to do with you or baby 2.

Just let him go. That's all you can do. Still go after him for child support, it's difficult to be a single parent and you will need the child support, but stop communicating with him. He's clearly no good. Even if he contacts you and pulls the "but she's my child" line. Do not fall for it. He will be out of her life again and you shouldn't put her through that.

I watched my aunt go through a similar situation and the hell it put my cousins through because she kept trying to make the guy be a father. Just don't have any contact at all. This thread is napping. This inactive post may not receive community feedback.

“My Ex Is Having a Baby with Another Woman and Says He Wishes It Were With Me”

I need some advice as I am battling with my heart and emotions right now. I was in a relationship with my daughters father for 4 years and we moved to texas together. We broke up in June of when he packed his stuff while I was at work and left. He didnt go anywhere at the time he just went ti my grandparents. They let him stay there for a month because he told every one he just needed space and he wanted to work it out for his family.

Or at least, my initial reaction to this topic. I understand that you love who you love, and even if they are an awful person.

To give some context, we broke up two years ago after three years together. We have grown and have remained in contact although I have put boundaries up since I still have feelings for him. I know he still has feelings for me too. It seems recently we were in a place where we could do another go-around and try again as we have both grown as people. In fact, he told me that he was planning to break up with this girl right before the pregnancy test came back positive.

Ex Has a New Baby With Another Girl

Every girl knows that there are two words that are sure to make the man in your life stop in his tracks. You start imagining being chained to this girl and a child for the next 18 years at least… It can be overwhelming. I mean even without the added stress of a breakup you have to account for two people and their dreams and goals in addition to your own moving forward. So… In order to get through all of these scenarios and how to handle them we have to find a way to cover each of them. What are your chances of getting your ex back? No matter how difficult your situation may be, you may still have a chance. Find Out Now.

How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back If You Are Pregnant

Our relationship was mostly good until we hit a rough patch towards the last year of our relationship. We were on and off for few months, and during that time we both dated other people. When we got back together we had a lot of trust issues and found it hard to forgive one another. Months after we broke up, he would come and go as he pleased. We were back and forth and it was very frustrating for me so I gave him an ultimatum I told him that he either wanted to make it work and we move forward, or, that I was leaving to another city to start over without him.

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ex boyfriend of 4 yrs got the next girl pregnant in just a few months!!!

So your ex is having a baby. You used to share everything — your hopes and dreams for the future, your Netflix password and even your bodies — but it's over now and you just found out they're having a baby with someone else. Maybe you are still friends and they tell you themselves. Perhaps mutual friends update you or, well, maybe you've spent some time stalking their social media accounts.

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Find help or get online counseling now. Posted by Cristalh My ex is having a baby with someone else after just one month of ending our relationship. I've been having a very difficult time dealing with this. Later I found out the girl was pregnant at that same particular time and he had made her his girlfriend. I guess she was a rebound gone wrong and he is just taking responsibility for his actions but it still hurts.

(Closed) Sad that my ex got another woman pregnant… how to move on?

This was the man that I thought I was going to marry and raise a family with. We were together for four years and best friends even before that. It almost feels like a deeper grief than I felt when we broke up. So, Bees… how do I stop being sad and let go of the future that I had created in my mind? Remember the reality of your relationship and not the fantasy you had for your future. Take some time to grieve over this and then pick yourself up and move on!

You know, the 1% that are going through a breakup AND pregnant? If your ex boyfriend has adopted this “my life is over” mindset he isn't thinking too clearly. she missed him more than she had ever missed anyone in her life before. I hope that makes you feel better about the baby being yours and not someone else.

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